Tips for Middle School Parents
- Become informed about school by attending orientations, meetings, and visiting the school web site regularly for updates.
- Ask your child to tell you about his/her days at school.
- Students of all ages benefit when family and school cooperate and have a positive relationship. If you have questions or concerns don't hesitate to call or email the school staff. Know the name of your child's school counselor.
- Ask your child to see the daily agenda regularly.
- Organization and time management skills must be developed so students will not feel overwhelmed. Provide a quiet study area and expect to see your child working regularly on homework and long-term projects. Set limits on TV and computer use.
- Check the school calendar regularly so you know when progress reports, report cards, and communicators go home. Also be informed of special events, programs, lunches, etc . . . the school hosts.
- Be sure the main office has current contact information.
- Talk to your child about school and peers. Listen for comments that reflect what they are feeling and thinking. Expect your child to make mistakes and have personal struggles. Give them time to think and make decisions about how to handle their problems and deal with the consequences.
- Peer acceptance and self-esteem become increasingly important. Provide opportunities for your child to develop his/her interests and socialize with friends, but be sure to monitor their choices. Don't be afraid to "pull in the reigns" when needed.